Simple is not Shallow and Complex is not Deep
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Simple is not Shallow and Complex is not Deep

It is impossible to measure the depths of the human soul. We are created in the image of our eternal God for the purpose of being in an eternal relationship with Him. The capacity of the soul is boundless, and we have eternity with our God to explore the depths of His love for us. All people are deep people. We are full of intellectual, emotional, and spiritual depth but the depth we possess is not always the depth we explore…

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Make it Beautiful
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Make it Beautiful

This is an incredible time to be alive. We have instant access to information, art, music, literature, philosophy, and history. We can learn and share virtually anything the human mind can conceive. The biggest question we face is not “how much we can know” or “what should we know” but “what will we do with what we know?” Information is power and power is often abused and misused for selfish gain. What if instead of abusing power, we used power to make this world even more beautiful?…

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Shadows of the 4th Dimension
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Shadows of the 4th Dimension

Do you ever feel like this world does not make sense? Do you ever have the sense that what we refer to as reality isn’t very real? Do you have a haunting feeling that things are not really as they seem? Do you suspect that there are forces outside of your perception that are actively manipulating your world? Do you suffer from chronic déjà vu, recurring dreams, and the occasional partial song lyric that gets stuck on repeat in your head and you cannot for the life of you figure out what song it is or what lyric comes next?…

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Joy Cannot be Stolen
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Joy Cannot be Stolen

Our world is full of rhetoric about “joy stealers.” We love to point the proverbial finger at basic life circumstances to accuse them of robbing us of our joy. We label things like stress, conflict, hardship, negative emotions, difficult people, and general society as being “joy stealers.” Our finger pointing is in vain, because joy cannot be stolen…

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No Anxious, Angry, or Arrogant Preachers
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No Anxious, Angry, or Arrogant Preachers

What began as a preaching reminder and coaching strategy has evolved into a powerful life mantra. “No anxious, angry, or arrogant preachers.” I repeat this phrase before stepping on stage to preach and I share it regularly with our preaching team. It is a wonderful heart check and recentering tool that I now apply to every aspect of life…

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False Humility is the Worst Form of Pride
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False Humility is the Worst Form of Pride

Humility builds connections. Pride hinders connections. False humility destroys connections. One way that false humility is often expressed is through the inability to graciously receive a compliment. When we discredit someone’s compliment, we create a relational disconnect…

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Every Life is a Story
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Every Life is a Story

Every life is a story. When we encounter people, they are not just entering into our stories…we are entering into theirs. There is more than the moment. In the moment, I can easily be self-obsessed, self-absorbed, and self-centered. It is easy for me to only consider myself and how the actions of others impact me and my story. I often forget that every interaction is the intersection of stories. Where I’ve been, what I’ve done, and what’s been done to me collide with the collected experiences of another as our stories merge into a new narrative…

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When in Doubt Do Without
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When in Doubt Do Without

I know…I know…it’s simplistic and it rhymes, but don’t discount this powerhouse truth because of its inherent cuteness. When in doubt, do without. This basic principle has saved me from doing numerous things that could have brought more pain and brokenness into my world…

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If You Have No Grass Don’t Kill the Weeds
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If You Have No Grass Don’t Kill the Weeds

Here is a life lesson I had to learn the hard way…if you have no grass, don’t kill the weeds.

It started innocently enough. I woke up on an unusually warm early Spring Saturday morning. While enjoying a cup of coffee and looking at my backyard through the kitchen window, I crafted a plan for my day. I felt that I had reached the point in life where it was time for me to finally have a well-manicured lawn. I don’t know what got into me…it was probably the combined effect of the warm sunshine pouring through the window, the hopeful songs of early birds getting their worms, and a Saturday with no plans…

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Bats in the Building
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Bats in the Building

Staff Member: “We need $30,000!”

Me: “Why do we need $30,000?”

Staff Member: “Because we have bats in the building!”

This type of conversation is fairly normal in my line of work. Not necessarily the “bats in the building” part, but the “we have a problem and the only way to fix it is to spend a lot of money we don’t have” part…

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Scripture Not Shared in Love is Out of Context
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Scripture Not Shared in Love is Out of Context

God is love. The Bible is a book that contains God’s words to us. God prepared, preserved, and presented His words to us in amazing book that helps us to hear His voice in powerful ways. From Genesis to Revelation, the Bible reveals God’s love for His world. Love is the foundational lens through which the Bible’s message is intended to be understood, applied, and shared. Since love is God’s intent, scripture not shared in love is out of context…

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Change Your Have-Tos Into Get-Tos
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Change Your Have-Tos Into Get-Tos

Here’s a lifehack that will provide you with more joy than you can imagine. Change your “have-tos” into “get-tos.” This simple strategic change in thinking is empowering and refreshing. Whenever you find yourself thinking that you “have to” do something, remind yourself that you “get to” do it…

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Lead Like a Duck
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Lead Like a Duck

Ducks are cool.

I love watching ducks. There are few things that I find more relaxing than watching ducks on a pond. Nothing seems to bother them. They are calm, cool, and collected. Noise doesn’t faze them. Rain doesn’t disrupt them. Being watched doesn’t change them…

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Don’t Feed What You Don’t Want to Grow
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Don’t Feed What You Don’t Want to Grow

Are you tired of feeling anxious? Stop feeding your anxiety. Are you tired of feeling angry? Stop feeding your anger. Are you tired of feeling arrogant? Stop feeding your arrogance. Don’t feed what you don’t want to grow…

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A Cabin, a Cave, or a Fire?
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A Cabin, a Cave, or a Fire?

Life…no one gets out alive. How do we navigate life when we know it always ends in death? How do we assign purpose, meaning, and value to our little blip on the timeline of humanity? How do we escape hopelessness, despair, and regret? How do we transcend self to connect to something greater? We have three options: a cabin, a cave, or a fire…

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Fail Fast and CHEAP
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Fail Fast and CHEAP

“Failure is not an option!” That phrase is often used by leaders as a motivating statement to express the importance of whatever mission they are pursuing. It sounds great, but it isn’t true…

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Truth without Love is cruel. Love without Truth is Condescending.
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Truth without Love is cruel. Love without Truth is Condescending.

Truth and love go hand-in-hand. Any attempt to separate love from truth or truth from love results in painful relational damage. Genuine expressions of love are truthful and genuine expressions of truth are loving. God is love and God is truth…God is truth and God is love…

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Make the Next Best Bad Decision
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Make the Next Best Bad Decision

Leadership is making your next best bad decision. Whether it is organizational leadership, family leadership, or self-leadership…we all face difficult choices each day…

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Emotions are not the Ultimate or the enemy.
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Emotions are not the Ultimate or the enemy.

Emotions are a hot topic. It is good that our cultural dialogue is exploring how to properly deal with emotions, because emotions are important. We are emotional people created by an emotional God who must find a way to emotionally connect with other emotional people…

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